My girlfriend's grandparents are mean lol... Any advice would be great.?

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My girlfriend lives with her grandparents and has so for the last few years... She is the one who actually encouraged me to post this question...

Anyway her grandparents are (this is very hard to explain) but they are very very mooding and grumpy. Her grandpa I swear still thinks he is in the army. Her grandma and grandpa argue every second of every day. Her grandma cant even ask her grandpa a question without him yelling and saying " I ALREADY TOLD YOU LISTEN NEXT TIME" Its ridiculous.

Anyway the annoying part is if I leave a shirt at their house they absolutely flip out and say HEY TAKE IT HOME TOMORROW!!! I usually leave a shirt there sometimes if my girlfriend wants to wear it to sleep or something. I will wear a COlts jersey or something and she will give me a different shirt and want to wear mine to sleep. But it becomes such an argument the next day as her grandparents yell at me.... They yell pretty much about everything.... The other day I brough over bread and sandwich meat and wanted to use some of their tomato and her grandma yelled for 5 mins she was like that is my special tomato now put that back.... Its come to the point I hate being there.

What can I do about this?
 
take your girlfriend and get out of this house they have already live their live they don't have to to make yours impossible
 
Maybe ask to use thier food lol. and tell them you love their grand daughter and that your sorry for leaving your shirts and dont let them find out about the shirts lol.
 
They sound very unhappy. But they are atleats takeing care of your grilfriend.

So do not ask them for anything. Not even a glass of water if they are that stingy and begrudging.

You might try giving her a big sloppy shirt to sleep in, not just leaving one there to use. Wrap it up like a gift and don't take it back. What can they say? It is a giftm for crying out loud! Now to get along with cronic grumps is near impossable. But if you just treat them with respect, and make remarks to them that show some but not too much intrest in their well being, or a project they may be working on ect it might open comunication.maybe even frindship. But that is a strech. There is not too much you can do about it. It is their home. She lives there.
 
Do you have to go over there to see her? If possible, spend more time with her but away from them. At some point the family drama will put a big strain on your relationship.
 
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