My husband and I had a fight, these days he is not showing interest in sex, how to

[misssenorita]

attract any tips? Like sexy lingerie etc. It has been six months since we actually got intimate : ( sob sob he never gets in mood sometimes feel like giving him viagra with out knowing lol!

 

[GoodnessGracious1]

Well if you haven't had sex in 6 months then things don't look good for you now sorry to say.

 

[IsisGrace]

He's probably getting it from someone else if it's been 6 months, wow that's a long time!

 

[Susan]

there are many reasons he may not want to have sex, but chances are you have gotten what every wife dreams of, a husband who loves them, not as a sex object, but as their spouse. He may simply think you don't want to have sex, or that u are not intersted. Also, he may be romantic, and so you have to know his love language, does he enjoy words, visuals, acts, etc. Try some time he'd enjoy, be intimate, touch, hug, kiss, and over time he will gear up more. Damn my wife can come home whil i'm dead asleep and i'll be f**** her in .3 secs if she makes the move. So i mean come on, nothing is keeping him from having sex but you.

 

[KloakaKloaka]

sit down and have a serious talk. Something's up.

 

[Flouride]

he doesn't want it from you 'cause he's obviously getting somewhere else. no normal dude goes six months without it.

 

[vis]

sit him down and ask him if he is still interested in your that way, a fight may keep him or you or wanting to do it for a few days, but 6 month that must of been one helluva fight

 

[Ann]

Maybe he's sex drive is going down. It really dosent even matter what he's age is. I had an ex who ran into problems in he's 20's. You could try new things. Maybe getting dressed up and going out and having some fun together, might help. Could be medical or could be he's in a rut. GL