...I supposed to do or feel? My husband and I got married WAY too young. I know that now. Wish I knew that then...I was 19 he was 20. It's now been 4 1/2 years. We've been really happy and I love him so much. Recently he told me that part of him wants to be single to experience other people. He feels like he didn't get to do that and now he's "trapped." He says that he sees girls at school (he goes to college which doesn't help!) that he thinks are hot and he thinks about having sex with them. He doesn't, but part of him wants to leave me so he can. We just started seeing a counseler today. But I'm have such a hard time with this. How am I supposed to feel? How am I supposed to not be jealous?! How do I not feel ugly and worthless? Of course I've thought about being single and having sex with other people, but for a second and I would never dream of leaving him to do it and honestly I could never actually do it! And he thinks about it everytime he sees an attractive girl! I know I probably sound stupid, I guess all men are like this. And I guess we got married too young. So really there's nothing we can do. I'm afraid he's going to end up leaving me because I can't be another woman for him. And even if he does stay how do I not think about the fact that he's thinking about having sex with other women constantly? I really don't even know if he's happy with our sex life. Have other women experienced this? How do you get through it? How do you get through feeling like you're not good enough?