My mom compares guys I'm interested in to my sister's boyfriend?

[Beachhbaby]

I'm 16, my sister is 16 and her boyfriend is 18. He is PERFECT in my parents eyes and he is a really good guy but it just get obnoxious. Last time I had a boyfriend (I was still 16) my parents wouldn't let him in my room. My sisters boyfriend is allowed in her room when no ones home. I was only allowed to stay at my boyfriends until 11, my sister can stay until one. My family took my sisters boyfriend to disneyland for a surprise birthday, let's me sister go on like weekend trips with him, and even thought about to taking him to Hawaii with us?? Every guy I date can never live up to the standards because my sisters boyfriend is sooooo amazing. Like every guy I talk to can't even be compared to how amazing he is in my parents eyes. I don't get it.

 

[Unregistered]

Yup, moms are rather human like that. See's cups sometimes half empty, sometimes half full, neither perfect nor imperfect - just human.

I remember the day I looked at my mother and decided to see her as a person not the title "Mom", that's the day I really got to know her and found her to be just one of us. <smile>