my mom is always yelling at me. she is in nursing school, and we live with her parents. I try not to stress her out because I know she will just get pissed at me, since she is in nursing school, which is really stressful. Mostly I try to stay out of her way and just let her study and do whatever she needs to do. But if one little thing happens, like my room is messy, she will scream at me and tell me I'm a selfish bitch and all I care about it talking to my boyfriend and being lazy. This morning it was raining really hard and I was about to walk to the bus stop, but my mom said "oh, I'll drive you". so I was like, okay. but she took a really long time. she went downstairs and went on the computer, and when I looked at my clock, I realized that the bus came in one minute, and I needed to hurry. she came upstairs at that moment, and drove me to the bus stop, but by the time we got there the bus had left. she was like "this pisses me off!" and she just started yelling at me about how I just expect her to take me anywhere I want, and I don't care about her, and I'm a lazy ass bitch and she won't care if I get into a horrible college (even though I've been doing pretty well in school, I have an 88 average). And she just proceeded to tell me how selfish I am...and then she dropped me off at home, and I, sobbing, slammed the car door and ran inside. I just can't take it anymore. I don't understand what I did wrong. it's not my fault she decided to screw up her life, and she has sex with married guys and thinks we don't know about it. please help!
thanks for the advice, and as for moving with my dad, I don't really want to because he doesn't want to financially support my sisters and I at all. He is always late on child support and he is always trying to lower his payments. and yeah, last night I stayed up till midnight doing laundry, and maybe I'll take advantage of the fact that I'm not going to school and clean.
well the only person that I talk to about it is my sister and my boyfriend. my boyfriend just tells me not to think about it, and just focus on the fact that I can move out soon. and my sister is the one that told me about the married guys, cause she was reading my mom's text messages I think.
thanks for the advice, and as for moving with my dad, I don't really want to because he doesn't want to financially support my sisters and I at all. He is always late on child support and he is always trying to lower his payments. and yeah, last night I stayed up till midnight doing laundry, and maybe I'll take advantage of the fact that I'm not going to school and clean.
well the only person that I talk to about it is my sister and my boyfriend. my boyfriend just tells me not to think about it, and just focus on the fact that I can move out soon. and my sister is the one that told me about the married guys, cause she was reading my mom's text messages I think.