My mom wont let me see my dad because she whines that he hit her?

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He hit her sometimes and they split up a few weeks ago. He didnt beat her up like she makes out he slapped her a few times and smashed things up because she doesnt know when to shut up and stop making things worse. He fixed the things after he broke them or got new ones. Like the coffee table, he threw it and she got a nicer one after so it isnt all bad.

My sister doesnt want to see him but I do. All my things are back at his house too but she wont let me. Its not like hes going to do anything hes hit me once maybe twice at the most and I'm not scared of him, shes a pussy.

I spoke to him on the phone and he said I can live with him and I want to because he can give me more money than she can, I like him better and she whines too much.

Can she stop me seeing him? I cant go and meet him without asking in case she can get me back somehow and then she'll be a bitch with me.
Her getting hit is her own problem she stayed with him for 14 years.
Its not only money. I like him more. Shes a spaz
I'm a boy, dick, and hes already hit me but not much because I know when to shut up
 
It is never ok for someone to put their hands on someone else and it doesn't matter if he or she can take it or not...if you want to see your dad and your over eighteen then go right ahead but I agree with your mom unless she is stopping you from seeing your dad out of spite. Good luck:)
 
Look , im going to be honest , and don't hate me. Im 12 and I know why . She is just trying to protect you . Its not about money . Do you even cared about what happen to your mother? He has some probables cause a man should never lay his hand on a woman like that! Your being very selfish on this . He could go to jail . Its called ABUSE!
 
Honestly, I think your mother left him for a good reason. You don't go around hitting your spouse!! EVER!! And she is your mom how dare you speak of her like this. You should be ashamed of yourself, she is trying to protect you and if you only care about who can give you more money then that is just despicable and disgusting!!! Maybe your like your father and that's why you tend to treat your mother how he does! You need help seriously!! Get some help please!! The things you have said make me sick I can't believe how some one could be so heartless and selfish and just plain dumb!!!!
 
leo, there's a BIG problem here with you thinking that your dad did nothing wrong & your mom is to blame for you not getting what you want;; you will grow up to be just like him & noone will want to be hanging with you...seriously..your dad has a BIG problem,.,..you need to face facts here..it is NOT ok for him to behave like that to your mother, nor you..it is NOT ok for you to think this behavior should just be slighted..it is NOT ok for your dad to act impulsively, nor to take his anger out on other people by hitting them...you, my dear will grow up to be a narcissistic pig, & think it's ok to demean women if you keep thinking the way you do...you're dad is not to be trusted with you...if you need a 'father' or mentor, ya gotta try looking for other decent family members who can help you on the way...an uncle, grandfather, whoever...but your dad needs a break, he's also trying to con you into living with him..& trust me, you don't want to know the details of that....you can love him all you want, but being in his presence will run you @ risk, for not only physical injury, but psychological....please get your head on straight about this...I know ya miss him, but don't be impulsive like him....think this out first;; & it's NOT your mom's fault he chooses to behave the way he behaves..that's ALL on him!!
 
Hopefully he got her a new face too after h busted it up. You're dad must feel great that his daughter approves him beating up her mom. It won't be too long before he starts on you but you'll be cool with it because beating a woman is acceptable for you.
 
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