My wife and I argue everyday about eveything but she always throw her ax who

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totally destroyed her.? She always depressed but keep saying she envy their relationship. She always on here talking but never about what really on her mind. Someone please help me in closing her chapter and sometime she open up to other guys but she suppose to be anti-social also when I ry to give her advice she says that I'm trying to act like I'm better than her and all I'm trying to do is help. She says she missing something
She asked me for advice, she not cheating she keep comparing me to her ex
 
Hello Mr. Baltimore,

Uhm, well from what I can discern, here, because I don't know what type of man you are. Perhaps, when you do give her advice, she may feel like you are coming on too strong. And I know, maybe you think or feel like she should know you love her and care about her and she shouldn't think or feel like you are coming against her. But, honestly, she's not going to change the way she thinks you are behaving towards her until she sees a sincerity in you that says, I love being there for you & I'm here to listen to all your problems, concerns etc. And as a husband you are the protector and provider for you family, according to our Lord's word. You shall lay your life down for your wife.. Now I'm not TRYING to dig deep into your relationship and make this seem worse than it is. I'm just trying to say, the thing she is missing might be you providing something emotional. Instead of giving her advice, just listen to her.. In the meantime, you will know without a shadow of doubt when she really needs your help. She wants validation that she is the one for you and you know that you know. I think also, she might want to see you happy to be in a relationship with her. Because she might see that she wouldn't want anyone else but you, but maybe she wants that affirmation that you need her just as much. And when you love someone that much you want no harm near them. Don't allow the enemy to steal your wife's joy. Pray for her, with her and pray the blood of the lamb over her..
Jesus is so sweet. And he knows your needs and your wife needs and when you two join in prayer together the Holy Spirit will guide you accordingly.

When prayer happens between a man and a wife, God sees favor upon them. It is the most intimate thing to come to Lord in prayer with your spouse. And it will build your relationship faster and stronger then you could have ever imagined. Just allow the Holy Spirit to guide you in your marriage and all the decisions a husband has been called to do. She will see the sincerity in all that you do when you couple into with the Lord in Spirit. It's the Holy Spirits subtle work that makes the biggest impact ever. ANd the love is pure it can bond any two in marriage..

I really hope this spoke to you and has helped or will help you and your wife.


God Bless you and your wife..
May an overflowing love and happiness abound in your marriage.
 
Mr. Baltimore, women don't like it when some one gives them suggestions. Some times they only need some one to listen to them and not to give them any opinion. Next time she talks to you just try to do some active listening. Show her that you are interested and listening but Don't give any solutions, ideas or suggestions and hopefully you'll be accepted by her like that.

Good luck
 
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