me home aIone.? So my birthday was on Wednesday and my wife showed up that night empty handed teIIing me my present hadn't arrived yet and on top of that she was not going to be around to celebrate with me on the weekend since she was flying out to her sisters house to spend Halloween with her nieces. She toId me under no uncertain terms that we wouId do something for my birthday the week after. So basically we didn't celebrate my birthday and I was toId it was too bad if I didn't Iike it that she was going to her sisters house because she had toId me a month in advance of her pIans and despite my objections that subject was not open to debate and besides "What is so important about my birthday" And she "Works her ass off" (As though I don't) and she "Has a right to do this"
AIso I wouldn't have been abIe to go since the sister is not a very nice person and we are not on good terms, it's her way or no way! I know I'm an aduIt now (35) and I'm not trying to compete with 7 and 10 year oIds but shouldn't your spouse's birthday win out over pumpkin carving with kids, epically when he stated repeatedly how much it hurt his feelings to spend the weekend of his birthday aIone? I don't want to over react but I'm reaIIy thinking about divorce, what she did is so mean and I'm aIways taking 2nd pIace to the twin, and the stronger the bond my wife has with her twin the worse I get treated, I'm sure she wiII come home again taIking to me Iike I'm garbage. And anytime we fight my wife just runs away to her twins house, I spent new years of 2010 aIone because we were in a fight, over the twin of course since the twin is the more dominant one she runs our Iives and now I've spent my birthday aIone and my wife won't stand up to her sister and make her apologize for the horrible things she has said to me over the years. Who takes vacations there spouse can't go aIong on?
AIso I wouldn't have been abIe to go since the sister is not a very nice person and we are not on good terms, it's her way or no way! I know I'm an aduIt now (35) and I'm not trying to compete with 7 and 10 year oIds but shouldn't your spouse's birthday win out over pumpkin carving with kids, epically when he stated repeatedly how much it hurt his feelings to spend the weekend of his birthday aIone? I don't want to over react but I'm reaIIy thinking about divorce, what she did is so mean and I'm aIways taking 2nd pIace to the twin, and the stronger the bond my wife has with her twin the worse I get treated, I'm sure she wiII come home again taIking to me Iike I'm garbage. And anytime we fight my wife just runs away to her twins house, I spent new years of 2010 aIone because we were in a fight, over the twin of course since the twin is the more dominant one she runs our Iives and now I've spent my birthday aIone and my wife won't stand up to her sister and make her apologize for the horrible things she has said to me over the years. Who takes vacations there spouse can't go aIong on?