Let me start off by saying that I usually don't care what people think, but this is a mother ... so that's different.
One of my friend told me yesterday randomly that his mother thinks I'm gay. (And no, I'm not.) Obviously I was like "really? weird." And he continues to say that "yes... i think he is." and that she wasn't confusing me with anyone else. I don't think I've even talked to her once. He told me that it was the way I acted or the sound of my voice (even though I've NEVER heard that one before but since some say I have a bit of an accent that might come off as a lisp?). He then continued to say that she mentioned it again in front of her friends "You know that guy ____? yeah he is gay." and they obviously told them that I've been dating my girlfriend for some time and she stated "he just hasn't come to terms with his sexuality yet."
Anyways, I'm pretty angry that a mother is saying these things. If it was a student, I wouldn't care, but this is an ADULT. I really don't want to make a big deal out of it or even speak to her, but I'm pissed that an adult who I don't know would do that. Need advice.
One of my friend told me yesterday randomly that his mother thinks I'm gay. (And no, I'm not.) Obviously I was like "really? weird." And he continues to say that "yes... i think he is." and that she wasn't confusing me with anyone else. I don't think I've even talked to her once. He told me that it was the way I acted or the sound of my voice (even though I've NEVER heard that one before but since some say I have a bit of an accent that might come off as a lisp?). He then continued to say that she mentioned it again in front of her friends "You know that guy ____? yeah he is gay." and they obviously told them that I've been dating my girlfriend for some time and she stated "he just hasn't come to terms with his sexuality yet."
Anyways, I'm pretty angry that a mother is saying these things. If it was a student, I wouldn't care, but this is an ADULT. I really don't want to make a big deal out of it or even speak to her, but I'm pissed that an adult who I don't know would do that. Need advice.