touchbyanangel
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Me and my fiance stay with my mom. I help her take care of my auntie. But we're looking for our own place. My mom met a man of blackplanet about 3 months ago. She let him move in the first time they saw each other physically. That was about a week after they met on blackplanet. He had a secret that he was keeping from my mom. Only me and my fiance knew, because he left evidence in the bathroom. He smokes crack. Last friday my fiance and him got into a huge argument that almost lead to fighting. My fiance called him out about his addiction. When my mom dude left about 3 or 4 hours later she called me into her room. She was telling me what her dude had told her about what my fiance was saying about him. (i hope that came out right). i confirm that it was true that her dude smokes. That me and fiance saw the crack pipe he left in the bathroom. After she heard that she said she doesn't need noone like that in her life and around her especially around my little brother. she said she never trusted him. she packed his things and told him to come and get it. he came over but he never took his stuff. I think she took him back. He just left empty handed not taking his things. I want to ask her so bad if she still in a relationship with him. sometimes my mom can act so desperate for a man. I need to know how can and what can i say to her to make her build up her self esteem. And that she doesn't need to be with someone who has an addiction. she seen what my uncle went through with his ex girlfriend who had the same addiction.