Nerd in epic love trouble...long but interesting...?

Randoman

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I'm going to be Very Confidential so just bear with me....

Note: I am a fifteen year old nerd (YES AND PROUD XD XD) with minimal experience talking to girls so again...Bear with me..

a year ago i saw a girl at school and fell in love with her,at that time i did a Sport and one day i found out that she was coming to the practice because she did the sport also i started to talk to her ,but not very much as i am a shy person and get extremely nervous when talking to girls...anyway she dropped out of the class and i changed schools...
BUT
-this year i went to a new church (im Catholic) and i saw her there...
3 sundays passed and i didnt say anything to her even though we had made eye contact...
But
-one day i made up my mind (and plucked up some courage) to talk to her after mass before she left...I started talking to her and she acted pretty normally...The only problem:.. HER WHOLE FAMILY (2 brothers,3 sisters,Mom, Dad) were standing right behind her (i started getting really nervous)...So now whenever i go to mass i cant talk to her because i dont want to talk in front of her family cause that just sucks....
Key points--
-We hardly know each other
-I only see her one day a week
-She never takes iniciative to talk to me

So my question is...
-What do i do to make her seperate herself from her family to talk to me...or
What should be i doing to make her interested in what im doing to make her want to seperate herself from her family to talk to me...

Ps-she sometimes looks at me in mass and then looks away with shifty eyes... what does this mean? also i once saw her at certain place while i was with my friends and she was with her brother and im pretty sur ethe brother screamed out "(My Name) (Her Name) LOVES YOU" and then she got all upset and started beating him up...so does this mean that she likes me or that she was upset at her brother for making me think that she likes me?

Sorry for like telling my life story but thanks for reading and please answer...


New Development: I just Found Out this morning her older sister goes to my school an we ride the same bus!!! Oportunity??

*Additional Details
-Her sister is in the College part of my school(My school-30% highschool% college)
-turns out my sister knew her older brother at one point and he liked her but she didnt like him
does this mean im essentially screwed brother wise??
-it was her younger brother who shouted not her older br...
-I NEVER STARE AT HER IN MASS...that would be just sooo un ethical..
 
I think what you will need to do is make friends with her first (this means talking to her infront of her family). Remember that you haven't seen her for a while, and she may need some time to get comfortable with you. Just chit chat, mention that you remember her from sports practice, what is she up to these days etc. etc.

Do this for a few weeks and then when you are both a bit more comfortable with each other you might be able to get her to sit next to you in church or you might sit next to her and then you will get the chance to ask her out.
 
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