Ok besides a good sense of humour,looks,what do you like in a guy?for

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women/girls haha? Just wondering what makes a girl like a guy..?
I asked a while ago,and most girls answered a sense humour.
my friends say that i can be really funny with all th b.s i sometimes talk.
But for some reason i can't seem to get a girl i like not even to save my life.
maybe its because I'm a chaotic person..or maybe I'm weird..

anyways back to the main question,besides looks, humor,what do you look in like in a guy?
or even better what is a turn off in a guy..
 
a good personality, and a guy who can show they can really care for a girl!

and a turn of in a guy is a guy who pests for sex
 
Someone confident, that can make moves easily but leaves openings for girls to make moves. Not pushy about the sex thing. I personally like guys that aren't wild and energetic. I prefer guys that are calm and don't say much, but not in a shy way. A sense of humor is a great virtue to have. If you can make a girl laugh, you're perfect.
 
A guy that shows a girl he cares is the biggest turn on. Don't try to get a girl by pretending you care, be genuine if you really like a girl show her by inviting her out, telling her how you feel about her.
Biggest turn off is a cocky guy, well for me.
 
TURN-ON'S: Sense of humor, supportive (of me and my dreams...Like i would be towards theirs), sweet and kind (not just a joker all the time), can hold a conversation with me (share their thoughts), honesty, smell (they have to smell good), not be afraid of showing affection ( like kiss me, or hold my hand, or tell me they love of in front of other people), they need to be able to laugh at themselves (not be too serious), confidence (but NOT cocky!!!), dominance (but not too controling), and i have to be able to see a real relationship with them (not jus a fling)...over all their personality is what matters to me. TURN-OFF'S: cocky, self centered, over controling (tells me what i can and cant do/or an abusive person), smells bad, hairy (eww i just dont like hairy bears), puts me down (tells me my dreams are stupid), treats me like a diff person in front of their friends, cheaters, lieing (i rather hear the truth then them go behind my back), thinks that money is everything, and cares too much about their looks
 
I like men who are honest and trustworthy. I don't like egotistical men. I do not like a guy who smokes cigarettes or drinks a lot! Which is a huge turn- off. I don't like a guy who tries to change me or control me. I don't like real skinny men.
 
Turn off in a guy? someone who flirts w/ EVERYONE, but not like normal flirting like, it looks like you like everyone. its just confusing.
Guys who do things wrong, and act stupid, pretending like they haven't done anything.
Immature guys, theres a difference between funny, and annoying.
A guy who thinks he knows everything, and doesn't let anyone try to teach him anything.

Things I like? CONFIDENCE CONFIDENCE CONFIDENCE.
Other than good looks, funny, I need someone who's nice, who is sensitive, but only when i want them to be sensitive, because if i wanted someone who is 24/7 sensitive i would just date a girl.
I need a guy to be rough wih me at time too.
so yeah, there you go.
 
can't really speak for other girls hun, but i like the randomness of a spontaneous guy. i have to feel comfortable in his presence, ex: if we're just sitting and i have nothing to say, i don't wanna feel like i'm boring him or that things are starting to get awkward. i think that really, in the end, it comes down to how comfortable two ppl can be with each other...all the other things, like looks, sense of humor etc...eventually fade away. ;)
 
TURN-ONS:
i look for someone who is as weird as me and someone who accepts me for who i am. i look for a guy that isnt afraid to be himself and is confident in his actions.
a guy who tends to fail at trying to be cute.
TURN-OFFS:
a guy who is way too cocky. confidence does not mean cockiness.
a guy who is obsessed with his appearance or being cool.
a guy who is a phony or a guy who tries to act all sexy but epicly fails.
a guy who cusses, does drugs, smokes, talks about sex all the time, etc.
 
i get turned off if i guy doesnt respect women like all they think about is sex or makeing out or anything. and immaturity pisses me off. when they do stupid stuff. like hand gestures to represent sex or anything to do with sex in front of me AND OMG, i hate it when guys when there together talk about women and how their so hot and stuff save it for a guys night out like CRAP.
anyway what i like in a guy is that they are a gentlemen, like holding the door open for girls.. paying on dates (sorry guys, but u gotta spend some money on us) dont be cheap, my friends cheap.
like a girl doesnt mind if they have to pay, its just nice.. but when a girl owes you like $5.27 or something and she gives you $5, take it whats 27 cents, my friend flips shit for that 27 cents and im like jessus. ok. heres another dollar like get over it. sorry ahaha ok and most importanly girls like confidence be self confident and own a room when you walk in it, boy! dont be shy, go right up and talk to your girl with no regrets and talk her up with your sense of humour.
 
Turn Offs : bad hygiene, cockyness, no confidence, rude, nasty, arrogant, pushy, trying too hard, uglyness, desperate, overweight, boring, predictable, no fun, depressing, hard to please, lots of ex girlfriends, no interests, short hair, no manners, no style, chavyness, and tracksuits.

Turn On's : good hygiene, confidence, sense of humour, good taste in music, nice to everyone, their own style, nice smell, caring, generous, lots of fun, impulsive, unpredictable, unique, not caring what other people think, bright personality, understanding, simple, good looking.

& these are what I would want, but i'm in my teens, so obviously older people would look for different things.
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a good sense of humor is very important but you have to remember who your audience is and what her background is. Something that you might find funny can be very offense to her. She might not always get that you really are funny and not an as*hole.

Beside from a sense of humor, it will CONFIDENT!
 
a guy who cares for you and treats you like you are the only amazing girl in the world, supportive. has things in common with me.. the guy i like.. likes to play sports and i like that because so do i, and its cool when you and your guy can do stuff together! i like guys who can be my friend..not just a lover... one that i can have fun and hang with and talk to!
 
The primary thing is confidence...seriously...even with less than great looks, a confident guy with a pleasing personality can get more girls than he'll have time to date...
 
Sometimes you don't have to question your self about so much .
Just be the person you r am sure girls will like you.
Women likes guys who r funny and always there to support them whenever they r in bad times.
But not all women r looking for that , we have different tastes so be who you r .
 
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