Opinions from Parents or Teenagers that have done this...?

DestinyH

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So, I've been sneaking around lately with this guy. And it's not that I'm ashamed of him, or he's not provable, I just don't think my parents would like the idea of me being with him. And here's why, I'm 15. I'm a sophomore in High School. He's 18, and a freshman in college. Now everyone thinks right off the bat, that he's only with me for one thing. Because sorry fellas at that age, you guys are pigs. But I can honestly say out of my heart that he's not. It's been almost a month, and we haven't even made-out yet. And we've only kissed like 5 times, no joke. I really like him a lot, and I think it's really good that we're taking things slow. My mom though, would have me by the neck if she found out about this and I'm just wondering...do you honestly think what I'm doing is setting myself up for trouble? I mean, I don't actually lie. I'll say, oh I'm meeting so and so at the movies and I'll just go there and he'll pick me up and we'll go drive around and talk. My mom is way too protective. It drives me insane.

I know when parents are overbearing, they think they're doing good...but when they say oh, don't do this, and don't do that. And they always have to know every little thing, it makes me want to sneak around. It's a proven fact that the more a parent is overbearing, the more the child will sneak, lie, and rebel. Which is happening.

So I mean I really do not want to quit on this guy. But what should I do?
I'am a Catholic, I don't believe in premarital sex. Thanks for the negativity though:)
 
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