PLEASE HELP! I need advice, why isn't she replying to my fb chat messages?

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michael_deco9

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(Disclaimer: Due to many previous answers with people misunderstanding the question I'm reposting this question, keep in mind I AM NOT AFTER HER FOR SEX OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT, I dont even know if I want a relationship with her, at this point I just think shes cute and I want to play WoW with her. That is all)

Okay so theres this girl I like, shes 14 and I just turned 17, we both did track together at ASL (school we both go to) but we never really talked during the season (it just ended) because we had like our own group of friends within our grade level. I recently found out she plays the same game as me (World of Warcraft) and I talked with her on facebook about it, things seemed to be going well until recently (like a day after our first convo) she hasnt been replying to my fb chat messages. I know its not her fb lagging because I see that she posts stuff on the news feed. Any ideas why she doesn't reply? I haven't said anything bad or done anything bad or inappropriate so I'm perplexed why she suddenly would stop replying when I initiate conversation on fb. (I cant talk to her in person at the moment since we are on a half term holiday)....Advice on what to do next would also be really helpful...should I post on her wall? maybe her chat isnt working? idk
Please give me some solutions to the problem instead of just saying "oh she hates you"
 
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DorothyJeHurlbert

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it's either she's not interested or maybe didn't notice the chatbox, so i would say if u really wanna talk to her, try posting on her wall, just say normal things, don't go like: why aren't u replying?! :p
if she doesn't reply, then u should get it! sorry to say
 
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JeffThao

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Maybe because she either isnt interested in you, or she just doesnt enjoy talking about the game. Maybe you should write to her and ask her if you are bothering her, and if you are then you will leave her alone and see what she will reply. Good luck
 
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Jack

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Sorry dude, but you're probably annoying her.. The best thing to do is to just let it go, you're probably coming off as needy and women find that creepy.. I'd ignore it, and maybe even delete her.. She may not like you, and if she doesn't now, pursuing her more will not make her like u.. Sorry, but it's true.
 
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sre011175

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Do not post on her wall. You could email her privately and ask her about it. Some people are boring to im...or slow to type and it gets boring. She could be chatting with other people or she has a bf and feels uncomfortable talking to you now.
 
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