POLL : Is she losing interest / avoiding me?

hbibiiii

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right. i know this girl since 2 months and everything seems to go quite well, we enjoy hanging out together, we do stuff together like walks etc.........we playfully touch each other...we smile a lot..she pays a lot of atention to me when I speak to her, like I feel she looks in my eyes..........we are certainly interested in one another but im not sure if we LIKE each other, perhaps its early days....

anyway.i feel that the texting has been great too..that was at the beginning......but since last week, when she had exams and her mom came to town, we only texted twice and she didnt ask how I was doing in her last two texts......this made me think!! i have this problem where I overthink in texting but when we are together we have a great time like as if we were a couple but I feel when we text it becomes like we are really good friends!!

is that normal??????????? and is it normal that she doesnt appear so excited or keen on the texting as before since her mom is in town?

FOR EXAMPLE.....when I wished her luck last week for her exams, she appreciated it and wrote kisses but did not ask how I was doing! ...a few days later I text her, ask her how her exams went but DID NOT ask how she was doing........a day later she replies saying "Hey! everything went ok, thanks for asking. But my mom came yesterday so I'll have to cancel the meeting with you tomorrow...sorry about that. Take care!".....IT was a different tone to the one im used to, its not the fact she cancelled, but the fact that for the second consecutive time she failed to ask me how im doing and that has happened since she started exams......

it was agreed last week that we would hang out this week..and yesterday as you can see in the text, she cancelled.
 
You make no sense lol. Basically that whole paragraph you wrote about is about exams & how you/she doing . . Stop being paranoid , it sounds like shes the same
 
Yeah, it's probably the same. But with her mom and exams she's just busy and doesn't want to start a conversation with you that she can't finish.
 
It seems like something has changed. Have you attempted to call her? Her mother coming in to town should have no bearing on her texting you because she can do that from anywhere since texting is as mobile as the device she is using. Are you sure she didn't have a boyfriend or "friend" come to visit because that would explain the change in the tone. I did notice that. If I was hot and heavy with someone and then they told me a few weeks later to "take care" and was cancelling on me left and right I would be thinking the same as you. You should set some time aside and have a real conversation about where she see's ya'lls friendship going. That is the only way you are going to get the truth. Good luck!
 
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