pregnant need relationship advice?

MELISSA1

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im currently 31+3 weeks pregnant. I became pregnant pretty fast after 2-3 months with my bf but are both very very happy and would not have it any other way. The relationship since for me has turned out to not be what i want. im 21 and my boyfriend is 32 going on 6. he is a very caring boyfriend like he will do little things to cheer me up make me smile and will rub my feet or back if im in discomfort, does most of the cooking and helps me out with the household chores. He also though is very obsessed with me can not leave me to have any space without using attention seeking behaviour or to keep coming in whether i am reading a mag or having a shower. I sleep on the sofa most nights which sometimes is due to being uncomfy in bed but other times as im not happy sharing the bed. He constantly asks me silly questions and just goes on and on then gets defensive when i tell him he is driving me mental also on every occasion he drinks he acts like a 2 year old. being very embarresing, rude to me and others, making silly noises and actions, doing gay girlie dances, has caused arguements with me and reduced me to tears. This is atleast once a week and it results in me going to stay at my mums for a few days as i feel i cant cope with the pregnancy as well as him. I am at the end of mt tether to be honest. we dont kiss or cuddle i never say i love you back as i dont feel it, have not had sex for 6 months and i dont feel attracted to him, hard tyhing is he is very into me. i have told him many occasions and he witnesses the outcome yet he still does it. when i tell him how i feel he makes me feel guilty saying im gtaking his child away and he does not want to be a weekend dad. If i left him i would have to move back into my mums and i only have 9 weeks to go till baby comes and cant expect that of her as she lives with my stepdad and 2 older brothers. i dont know what to do?
 
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