ChrissieSingleton
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My ex and I broke up dec. 1st of last year.. he broke up with me for really no reason, I guess I got annoying idk. But we were broken up for a little over a month, during that month I talked to a guy for a little bit but nothing serious and he hung out with this girl. Well just recently, like a week after valentine's day I came across from pictures of the two of them because my roommate found them and told me. There was pictures of them spending new years together and they were exchanging gifts in his bedroom... she bought him boxers! Along with a couple of other things and I was furious to say the least. There was also a picture of them together with matching hollister shirts on I guess they bought each other.. and he was playfully sticking his tongue out like he was about to lick her face and she was just smiling.
So I was so mad that I texted him "we are fxcking done!" and he called me and I ignored him and eventually called him back to go off on him... he told me I was overreacting and that we weren't together and that I can't be mad because we were both single. But that didn't matter.. I was still mad because me and him never exchanged xmas gifts or hung out for new years or even took pictures like that and he could do it with that girl. He knew her in high school btw.
Soo after that whole ordeal with me going off on him, I called him a bixch amongst a few other things and he got really offended and told me I disrespected him and said "You just fxcked yourself over, hope it was a nice feeling" saying that we're not getting back together and this and that. I figured he would come to his senses and apologize but he never did... so I started texting him, all he would text back was leave me alone please. I dont wanna be with you anymore etc, stop calling me and texting me. Basically I made a fool of myself. Eventually he finally called me back because I wouldn't stop texting him and I was in tears... he was just like go inside the house. everything will be ok i'll call you back tomorrow.. so I did. He didn't call back for 3 days and when he did he was so cold, he said he couldn't be with me even though he loved me because I went too far and disrespected him by name calling and that I talk too much and I was just annoying him. He told me he wanted to be single because he's sick of going back and forth with me because we're so on and off..
I just don't understand how you can love somebody and not be with them? Help me please
I love him and i'm sooo depressed right now, I just want him back!
Also.. the phone call with me basically begging for him back happened last night... he told me to stop calling him and I told him to stop being mean to me. He said his phone was about to die so he'll call me back tomorrow.. well he didn't call. Instead, he texted me earlier and we talked for a little bit through texts (about my new car) and then he just stopped texted me in the middle of the conversation.
Oh yeah also...
Should I go and swap our things out or wait a bit?
Or should I leave him alone for a while and then ask to get my things back? Because I have asked and he told me I can come by wednesday while he's at work to get them... he clearly does not want to see me and said that he thinks we should keep our distance for a while.
So I was so mad that I texted him "we are fxcking done!" and he called me and I ignored him and eventually called him back to go off on him... he told me I was overreacting and that we weren't together and that I can't be mad because we were both single. But that didn't matter.. I was still mad because me and him never exchanged xmas gifts or hung out for new years or even took pictures like that and he could do it with that girl. He knew her in high school btw.
Soo after that whole ordeal with me going off on him, I called him a bixch amongst a few other things and he got really offended and told me I disrespected him and said "You just fxcked yourself over, hope it was a nice feeling" saying that we're not getting back together and this and that. I figured he would come to his senses and apologize but he never did... so I started texting him, all he would text back was leave me alone please. I dont wanna be with you anymore etc, stop calling me and texting me. Basically I made a fool of myself. Eventually he finally called me back because I wouldn't stop texting him and I was in tears... he was just like go inside the house. everything will be ok i'll call you back tomorrow.. so I did. He didn't call back for 3 days and when he did he was so cold, he said he couldn't be with me even though he loved me because I went too far and disrespected him by name calling and that I talk too much and I was just annoying him. He told me he wanted to be single because he's sick of going back and forth with me because we're so on and off..
I just don't understand how you can love somebody and not be with them? Help me please
I love him and i'm sooo depressed right now, I just want him back!
Also.. the phone call with me basically begging for him back happened last night... he told me to stop calling him and I told him to stop being mean to me. He said his phone was about to die so he'll call me back tomorrow.. well he didn't call. Instead, he texted me earlier and we talked for a little bit through texts (about my new car) and then he just stopped texted me in the middle of the conversation.
Oh yeah also...
Should I go and swap our things out or wait a bit?
Or should I leave him alone for a while and then ask to get my things back? Because I have asked and he told me I can come by wednesday while he's at work to get them... he clearly does not want to see me and said that he thinks we should keep our distance for a while.