Sex before marriage? this is sort of a rant, I want to know your opinions please!?

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Okay,first off I don't believe in any religions at alll! So please,with all respect, don't bring up God.
My boyfriend is 18, and I'm 16 ..we are both virgins and I can seriously trust this guy with anything. He's my bestfriend.
I used to want to wait til marriage to have sex, but honestly thinking about it...I don't know what for.. Like I'm literally in love with everything about him, this deffinitaly is not lust, I just know it.
But recently we've been talking on the subject of sex, I mean, I would NOT have sex with him if it wasn't with a condom, and I know the possible risks. .
This is a huge desicion on my half, I just don't know why I keep having second thoughts. I feel as though its society..because everyone has this whole idea of waiting until marriage. But I feel if your emotionally ready and mature enough and prepaired, its okay? Right?
Its also such a huge desicion, becasue he'll be my first, and I only want ONE sexual partner in my lifetime. He knows that and feels the same..
He's already told me his feelings about our relationship, and that he is in it for the long run.
I don't feel like we''re being young and nieve.
What are your thoughts?
Again, do not bring religion up !!!!
 
I personally dont see anything wrong with it.

It wasnt a problem back in the old days, I dont see why its a big deal now.
 
I've been in the same situation before, and whatever feels natural you should do! In a perfect world everyone would wait to have sex for marrige, but that is not the norm in our society anymore. If you feel like you really want to devote a big part of you to him, then whats stopping you! All i can say is be sure to have safe sex.
 
Your sex life is fully up to you, if you want to give up that one thing that all guys want in a guy now, than go do so, but if you want to save it for that one person, than you should wait till marriage. Do you honestly think, in a couple of years you and this guy will still be as close? Or you'd even marry him, not judging off the back or anything, but generally your young, you're going to find more of these I love him guys, and I can trust him with anything, I promise you that!
 
you are being naive. if you only want one sexual partner, then you kinda have to wait for marriage. At this age, you don't know that you'll be with him forever, you just can't. And I know people say that all the time but no one can ever be positive that you'll be with one person forever. People change and grow apart. It happens and you can't know now that you will or won't. You just can't. I never thought I'd grow out of my Best friend of 8 years, but it happened. I'm fine with you guys having sex, i'm just saying if you only ever want to have one, you need to wait.
 
Lol deffintently before marriage, yet wait till 17 at least please. It just discusting before that.
 
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