Wondering. If a guy you have sexual relations with starts playing in the butt area quite a lot with his hands on it or starts getting a finger in it while touching you elsewhere....what happens in a man's mind when he starts going that road, according to you? Is it a way to imagine what it feels like to have sodomy? Let me know! Thanks 
PS: Is it a way to send a message...or to lead somewhere more...?

PS: Is it a way to send a message...or to lead somewhere more...?