okay so the first tome i had sex was a couple weeks ago and me an my bf been together for awhile he use to finger me and we did that for awhile and we were both happy and content but then my virgina got tired after about a year of doing it.... soo for about a year i went without get pleased cuz we wanted to wait but we finally decied to try it but we were still nervous so we did it for only about a minute and i felt nothing but it felt good for him.... by the way i was on top do u think that could cause it to not feel as good??