Should i apologise to my husband ?

jessicar

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I m a mom of 2 beautiful sons, 7 and 8 yr old.I always try to spend more n more time with my kids. Few days ago we 3 were playing a game at home in which each one of us had to guess a movie turn by turn, which was being enacted by any of us.My 8 yr old was enacting a movie which i had to guess,but my other son was constantly interrupting in between and trying to guess the movie. So i cupped my hand over his mouth from behind so dat he doesnt say in between,the name of the movie. It was all in fun and laughter. He started scratching my hand,but i didnt let go off my hand from his mouth till i correctly guessed the movie. Suddenly my hubby came and started scolding me for doing this. He said that i shouldnt have done that,as it might had suffocated him. We had a fight over the issue and my whole day was spoiled. I tried to explain him that it was in fun and laughter and i wasnt smothering him as i m his mom. I dont know how i should get back things to normal.
 

ShirleyImerite

New member
I think that your husband took the incident out of context. It's a shame he's not hearing you on this.

Honestly, I think this is one of those agree to disagree things that need to just go away. No apology, unless you want to say something to the effect that "I'm sorry that our playing made you nervous hon". But please know you didn't do anything wrong when you and your boys were having fun.

After, just don't discuss it any longer. You go on like nothing happened, and he will to.

I hope this helps!
 

Chatterbox

New member
Well, instead of being right or wrong, try saying your sorry you had a fight and you miss him. Try to avoid any discussion of what happened. Just say you hate fighting with him and would he like to go make up now? Wink, wink!
 
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