should i be concerned if my bf would rather party with friends and smoke weed

[LaurenAdduci]

than spend the holiday with me? we have been dating for 2 months. he has been saying for weeks how he'd love to spend the 4th with me and have me meet his family. then he calls me today and says hes going to a party in east boston at a penthouse to smoke weed and party....id think a a guy with a beautiful gf would want to sit and watch fireworks with her like all the cute couples i see out. but he honestly chose not to.

 

[AlwaysKeepTheFaith]

Yeah you should be. Either he doesn't care about you or he's using you.
I say leave him if he doesn't change his ways.

 

[david]

You are right!!! He broke plans with you...I think it is time to dump his sorry butt!!!!

 

[~Pooh~]

I think its wrong taht he already made plans with you and then bummed out on you last minite. maybe you should ask him if you can come party with him then. If he says no, i think you already got a problem on your hands and maybe you should reevaluate your relationship

 

[rmndmcmmo]

see if you can go with?
and even if you don't smoke or whatever, you can still enjoy your time with him

 

[Mre10inchlong]

you can spend the holiday with me if he is not acting right