Should I break up with my boyfriend if he keep making these crude, immature jokes?

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I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 25 and I have been with him for 3-4 months. I have thought about breaking up with him because his immature, sarcastic jokes when I didn't get sex. Today he sent me a text message to come over but I couldn't make it even though I wanted to see him. Later on it turns out he wanted sex and he has some nerve to tell me that he was texting me and an ex girlfriend to see who would come over his house. When it turns out I couldn't come he allowed his ex to come over his house next week and said that he was horny and make a joke that something might happened. He told me he was joking and that nothing would happen and not to worry. I was hurt and put my foot down and he made it seem like I made a big deal about nothing. I don't think anything will happen but this is not the first time he made these kind of jokes. Please help me! Also if there is something you don't understand please ask!
His ex is coming over to his house. I confronted him about his jokes because it really hurt me and he said that I have to get used to it. He made it seem like I was making a big deal out of nothing. He does care about me and I know he isn't going to cheat on me but these jokes hurt me and I told him that and all he can say to me is get used to it.
 
Tell him that you don't like them and that they hurt you and make you feel uncomfortable. If he continues with the jokes then dump him.
 
Tell him that it's not funny and it's just disrespectful towards you and you don't like that. 3-4 months isn't that long. And if he doesn't like that then ditch him. He's not worth your time. And he's most likely playing too many games. Let him know that this isn't highschool and you want a serious relationship. A guy that will care for you and appreciate you like you deserve to be. And if you do stay with him and he even thinks about acting that way again, warn him, then leave him if he does. There 7 billion people in the world, 1 of them will love you like you should be loved.
 
Your a doormat to this guy, your just being used for sex and whatever else he's getting from you. You know this and are obviously too weak to do anything about it or you would have already.
 
This clown is far too immature to waste your time on; dump him.
 
Yes, you should dump him. There's no reason to spend time with him if you dislike him.
 
Okay..... soooo you think your bf cares about you then he would not invite his ex girlfriend over and start telling her that he is horny and crap just to get some sex off her or you now to me that is being really immature:) just saying:)
 
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