I'm a 21 year old young, black, handsome, somewhat shy, educated guy. I'm in college, working and I'm a really nice guy =) My problem is it's hard find to find a decent girl to date. I always hear that since I'm in college I shouldn't date but just try and get girls into bed and what not. That's fine and all but I'm tired of girls that get ran through by everybody. I'm more of the relationship type anyway, not necessarily a long term, but just a shared special connection with somebody. I'm about to cut one girl off because she just sends me one word texts, doesn't really answer the phone, but lets me take her out n flirts with me n its annoying me because I feel toyed with. It's hard for me to meet people because it takes a lot for me to approach anybody. It also irritates me that the girls I do encounter aren't what I like physically, or their personalities suck to me, some are too clingy, and some don't show me ANY attention. Maybe in the end I'm just being too picky. I should just concentrate on my school work but sometimes I just get lonely and want someone of the opposite sex to unwind with. I know that I'm definitely a great guy and I deserve an all around good girl, and it makes me upset when I get less than that. I know nobody is perfect, hell I'm far from perfect, but I'm not asking for perfection. I've been too nice in the past and started working on it to achieve a balance of nice, bu know when to speak up. Sometimes I think if I was a thug, a dopeboy, or just an a-hole, maybe then I'd be able to get somebody and keep them interested, but at the end of the day I know if they don't like me for me then they can hit the road. Like my title says this is a rant... But any comments are welcome