So there's this girl.. Young (homo) love :o?

Charlyene

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I'm 13 and female. My friend kept nagging me to 'come out' cuz I won't stop talking about my sexuality..
Well, I'm just bi-curious.. Since beginning of 2012.
I'm in 8th grade and I saw this really cute 7th grade girl in the hallway. I talked about her to my friend and found her on Facebook. I didn't add her yet.. But I'm just nervous to:/
I really wanna meet her and not end up stalking cause I heard she's quiet and I like her style from afar.

Um, what do I do now? We have no classes.. And how do I know for sure what I am? I know they're 'just labels' but something keeps bothering me. So I wanna test myself out if I really do like girls or if I get disgusted.. But is there a method to that?
My friend told me to look at pictures lol and see if I get attracted haha. I mostly fall for personalities but I never thought of going for looks..
So how did you know or anybody that you know knew they were gay?
 
Well, first of yes I'm gay and i will tell you how i knew i was gay (by the way I'm thirteen as well so maybe you can relate a little better) anyways i moved to this new school this year (i was perfectly strait then) and i sat in the front and i never turned around to look at any of the kids because i was nervous so i just kept my head down but after a few minutes i decided to look around and the second i did my eyes went strait away to this boy and i thought that his style was pretty cool, anyways days went by and i found myself having no friends so during recess time id always sit in the shade by myself, however whenever this boy walked by i noticed that i was smiling until he walked away and then i felt sad again, during classes i often found myself looking at him for long portions of time but immediately looking away when he looked. as days went by he came up to me while i was all alone in the shade and talked to me i felt really good not only because someone talked to me but because it was him, we talked for a long time and i noticed that when he left i immediately felt heart broken for some reason, later on in the year we became good friends and we always did "gay jokes" like he would sit on my lap or we would groap each others chests and then i realized it, i was no longer "admiring his style" but i was in love with him, and to this day i still am. so basically this is how i knew i was gay and honestly i cant tell you when your gay or anything but i can tell you that you will know it in your heart when it happens :) good luck,
 
I found out for sure in 6th grade. Before that, I never really had any feelings for guys at all. And then I found myself thinking about this girl every single day and at first i thought it was just jealousy and then I realized that I wanted to kiss her... it was an oh shit moment. Really overwhelming and stuff so I just kept it to myself for a while. 3 years later and I still like girls a lot. I've started to notice some guys and kinda like them but then I talk to them and realize all guys are dumb lol. But seriously I'm just really sexually and romantically attracted to girls.

Now when I look bad even to 1st grade, it was obvious I liked girls. I was kinda touchy-feely in the least perverted way imaginable. I'd always think of them and I never really thought of it because I never really knew what gay people were until about 3rd grade. Even then, I was oblivious.

So that's how I knew.. hope this helps if not, you can email me if you wanna talk more. [email protected]

And no dont worry im not a predator :)

Good luck
 
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