What schools did you go to? I'm at Purdue and I've only come across a few houses that I did not like. All the guys in just about every fraternity here are pretty cool. We usually go out to Lambda Chi, Kappa Sigs, and KDR and everyone there is very welcoming.
It seems like people who don't like fraternities go to school where they suck. I've never had any problems here :tup: