I have also pledged a frat like you, and it was 1 week before I would have become a brother when I dropped out... why? For me, I consider hazing to be... hell week, camp out, light poles, flag poles, h-poles, PT, etc. I know several of the things that are "sacred" and trust me... frats aren't worth it. You are ignorant, especially since you're just a pledge and still don't know MOST of the stuff they consider "sacred"
Oh, as far as pledging stories:
Hell Week: A full week where you have to sleep at the house, do a whole bunch of things for brothers, stay up until 6:00 am doing pushups, sit-ups, etc. and go vandalize other frat houses.
Camp Out: A night where brothers and pledges go out camping, run, do pushups, do sit-ups, and a bunch of other retarted stuff... and you can't sleep.
Light Poles: Run to a light pole in the backyard and back into the house... then repeat the process 10-30 times.
Flag Poles: Run to a flag pole in the front yard and back into the house... then repeat the process 10-30 times.
H-Poles: Run to a light pole in the main parking lot of the school that's about half a mile away, and back 1-4 times.
PT: Staying up all night doing push-ups, sit-ups, light poles, flag poles, h-poles, etc. all night... usually 4 days a week.
If you can find a fraternity where you don't have to do a bunch of useless **** like this, then more power too ya, because with a frat, you get to drink a lot, hook up with a lot of girls, always have a place to chill other than your dorm, always have people to hang out with, etc... it makes it really easy to meet new people around campus, not just within the frat, but people around campus at the parties you'll throw. Without all the useless shit like mentioned above, I would have stayed... since most of the fraternities do this kind of stuff... I think you'll be hard pressed to find a good one to join.