It's been the opposite for me. It was only in discussions with my own generation that I started properly considering the plight of minorities. This can change however depending on your social groups, Sports Clubs at University are notorious for inequality and unfortunately a night with the Rugby Lads will probably entail some very different gender discussion when compared to "The Thespian Society".
The 1980's included the rise and fall of the National Front. Nowadays the far-right fascist movements are in pieces, with numbers dwindling they are frequently out-numbered at there own Marches by UAF (Unite Against Fascism) counter-demos. Largely the far-right find it difficult to gain ground these days because people are so wary of the kind of things groups like the EDL stand for and so racists often have to be a lot more cloak and dagger.
The EDL - for instance - do a very good job of covering up whenever one of their members gets snapped on facebook with a Nazi flag in his bedroom or filmed chanting slurs at racial minorities but people are now well aware that they are a political group to be avoided.
I'm sure we have plenty of casual racism that still needs to be addressed, but the formal racism that used to be a real factor in our politics has all been but banished to the fringes of the spectrum. Now it's tacitly implied and hidden racism, with overt displays of racism being reserved for private settings when no one is around.
And No... it wasn't a joke. We have never bombed people into another culture, we have taken over and then tried to re-instate our own culture but these were not attempts to "civilise the savages" they were merely instrumental in achieving larger goals concerned with the acquisition and maintenance of territory.