Things are not going right in this marriage, and IDK WTF to do? lol?

Marine32

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Ok so I'm unemployed, having filled out my 613th application (yes I have been counting), I get one interview for the past 3 yrs I have been searching, spending 6-8hrs a day looking for work, sometimes re-applying to the same company, walking, biking and running to town when I don't have a ride, just looking and looking for a job, but I am seriously getting to the point, that I might consider being the bad guy and doing illegal something to get any money, because I have 3 children, and a wife (lol). I can barely get out of the house, because my wife thinks I'm going to go away and never come back for whatever reason I don't know, and I'm only allowed to go anywhere if I'm walking , biking or have money ( which I have not had any money since 2009 ) for gas to use her $34,000 vehicle to even go see my mother or brothers that live 30 miles, but yet she gets to go anywhere and has the nerve to ask if she can go hang out with her friends and see her family, but I can't? WTF!?...while I get to be ( held against my will ) at home, I cook, wash the dishes, load the dirty clothes into the washer and dryer, fold the clothes, vacuum, steam clean the carpet, sweep and mop the floor, take out the trash, wash the windows, dust and scrub the countertops and table, all while carrying a iPad looking for replies in my email hoping for interviews, I can't help but think why am I not getting at least a dollar or $100 would be nice to buy my kids a birthday present for past 3 years that I am behind on gifts, and on top of all of this her mother is moving in to help take care of bills, I think I am going absolutely nuts or will soon. I gave up all contact with friends and some of my family just so I could be home, and she could be happy but I AM NOT HAPPY! I miss hanging out with my old friends, but I have to be home according to my wife who just said recently " I don't want you to work ".......
 
You need to talk to her about this. talking might fix this, b4 a divorce is in order
 
okay what kind of resume do you have that you sent out 613 and aren't getting any bites?

does she work? if so, when u leave take the kids with u and you can get child support, maybe spousal support too.
 
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