seearrharr
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To be fair to her, she would probably do everything if I told her to, she's too much of a wimp to say no! The thing is, I've done this job before so I'm quicker and better at a lot of things than she is. I'm also impatient and can't be bothered waiting around for her to finish, so there is the temptation to take over and do some of her stuff as well. I am contemplating raising the eating/drinking issue with my boss, because on long days in the field it is obviously starting to affect her performance and health, and I don't know where I would stand if something happened and the university health and safety people got involved.
The long days and hard work I don't mind, the nannying and life coach stuff (and the constant having to make all the decisions and tell her to do basic things like drink) are starting to grate.
I'm trying to decide whether to give up trying to accomodate her stupid diet issues when eating out and just go somewhere I want - it's not like she eats any amount of worthwhile tasty food anyway and most places will do some sort of salad.
The long days and hard work I don't mind, the nannying and life coach stuff (and the constant having to make all the decisions and tell her to do basic things like drink) are starting to grate.
I'm trying to decide whether to give up trying to accomodate her stupid diet issues when eating out and just go somewhere I want - it's not like she eats any amount of worthwhile tasty food anyway and most places will do some sort of salad.