Thanks guys. My hand has been played as unbeknownst to me the gym have entered me for this comp at the end of the month. I was more into it when I got there and managed 130kg for 3 reps on deadlift on second attempt when it was sliding through my hands on the third, and 9 chinups consecutively which is a PB.
The martial arts side is complicated. I like doing the grappling and throwing side of ninjutsu but really think my faux pas on here (even though my teacher has hardly been on here much since) has ended any hopes of continuing, just don't fit in with the club maybe it was cliquey and I didn't notice. I'd try the BJJ but there has never been any women at the club I go to, hardly any stick it out more than a week or two at the offtopic and Thai boxing, the latter I'd like to go just to annoy the teacher who is an arse imo but knows his stuff