This girl rejected me.Then her new bf started abusing her and came to me for...

E

EricL

Member
...help,but i laughed is that right? This girl rejected me,claiming that i was too nice and she only liked bad boys. Then her new bf started abusing her. She came to me for help, but i said no, as it was her fault she got into this mess, and its her that can get out. I tried to love you, but you ignored me. I laughed inside. Is this the right thing to do?
 
J

JustMe

Member
It seems to be the right thing. Shes not your problem since she decided to reject you. She wanted a bad boy and she definitely got what she deserved. Possibilities are she won't be so eager to get a bad boy next time around.
 
C

CBUnderoath

New member
Sir, I don't blame you for being bitter. It's always easy to bring out the "I Told You So" and "Well, Look At Yourself Now" phrases when they are called for. But, if you really ever loved her, you would've helped her in a heart beat.

Don't get me wrong, she made her own decisions that led her to exactly what she had coming. She was wrong to go for bad boys when they are, apparently, "bad" (who knew?). But, when someone asks for help when they make a mistake like that, that's when you show who the better man is. That's when you prove what kind of guy you really are.

Well, you showed your colors. Maybe you made a mistake, and I don't blame you for what you did. She deserved it. But, you could have shown that you were much more than what you did show. Hey, but that's what living is all about. Making mistakes, and learning from them. You'll get it right next time . And maybe she will too.

Peace, bro.
 
Top