ihartpurple
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- Jun 14, 2010
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...check it out/answer? Okay. There is a guy who i really really like and I am pretty sure he likes me too but he's shy about it I guess and so am I but I have been trying to go out of my way(without him knowing of course) to somehow get one of my friends to become friends with him and have us all hang out together one day.(because this guy I like I never get to see because he is in no classes with me and hes two years younger than me so I never get chances in school to see him) So when that day does come-which I am hopeful it will-I know for a fact that he(my crush) will like my personality as I will his and that he thinks I'm good looking and I think he is-but I just need to know some serious psychological tips about how to be myself and remain the way I am-but keep him hooked and wanting more. Like, I want him to KNOW that I am not desperate and that i didn't only pick him because I felt I 'must only pick him because no one else would like me'-guess again. NOT true. There are guys who like me-and yes I do get told how beautiful I am often 
and nice/funny but I am modest in the way I dress and kinda shy about it all-but I have a fun, funny, honest, sweet, bold yet moody sensitive and shy personality. So no I've never had a boyfriend or anything. But aanyway-HOW do I keep him wanting more? And knowing how great it is to be with me? Should I get my guy friend whos probably gonna be the one to hang out with us that day-to compliment me on my looks?? Or tell Brian(my crush) how cool I am? Also I know for a fact my crush loves my singing voice and finds it really attractive-so should I sing around him? Look I don't mean to make this complicated-but I feel like this guy is so much more than worth it. And I want him in my life and I really wanna kiss him and I want him to be my boyfriend !!! So please give me your best advice on what to do in this given scenario-how to make him my boyfriend, etc. I want to know when we hang out how to make apparent how great I am to be around, and how I'm not desperate, but how I really like him and how we'd have so much in common-especially because i think he shyly does like me too from a distance-as I do him.
P.s.-I am shy and NOT a sl*t whatsoever so please no risky suggestions. Thank you very much. I do worry a lot so if you have nothing nice or meaningful to say to this-please say nothing at all.
and nice/funny but I am modest in the way I dress and kinda shy about it all-but I have a fun, funny, honest, sweet, bold yet moody sensitive and shy personality. So no I've never had a boyfriend or anything. But aanyway-HOW do I keep him wanting more? And knowing how great it is to be with me? Should I get my guy friend whos probably gonna be the one to hang out with us that day-to compliment me on my looks?? Or tell Brian(my crush) how cool I am? Also I know for a fact my crush loves my singing voice and finds it really attractive-so should I sing around him? Look I don't mean to make this complicated-but I feel like this guy is so much more than worth it. And I want him in my life and I really wanna kiss him and I want him to be my boyfriend !!! So please give me your best advice on what to do in this given scenario-how to make him my boyfriend, etc. I want to know when we hang out how to make apparent how great I am to be around, and how I'm not desperate, but how I really like him and how we'd have so much in common-especially because i think he shyly does like me too from a distance-as I do him.P.s.-I am shy and NOT a sl*t whatsoever so please no risky suggestions. Thank you very much. I do worry a lot so if you have nothing nice or meaningful to say to this-please say nothing at all.