I just wanted to know if I should be as worried as I am?
There is this guy I know , he is 30 years old and a police officer. I found out from someone else ( yes through the grapevine so it's not 100% reliable). He has been going to church for a very long time.. And apparently he went to court because one of the boys at church who was very young said that he had touched him. He went to court but was cleared... Anyway, because he is still in the church he hangs out with kids a lot like teenagers - 14/15.
So I was talking to his housemate and she said that she has noticed that when he has guys from church to sleep over (which is often) they sleep in the same room - which is a huge room with 3 fold out couches - double. Anyway he recently had a 17 and 20 year old sleep over and they slept in the same fold out couch.
There are three warning signs for me:
1) they shared a bed when there's heaps of beds
2) he's 30
3) and his history
And he's known these boys since they were young so I don't know? What do you guys think?
There is this guy I know , he is 30 years old and a police officer. I found out from someone else ( yes through the grapevine so it's not 100% reliable). He has been going to church for a very long time.. And apparently he went to court because one of the boys at church who was very young said that he had touched him. He went to court but was cleared... Anyway, because he is still in the church he hangs out with kids a lot like teenagers - 14/15.
So I was talking to his housemate and she said that she has noticed that when he has guys from church to sleep over (which is often) they sleep in the same room - which is a huge room with 3 fold out couches - double. Anyway he recently had a 17 and 20 year old sleep over and they slept in the same fold out couch.
There are three warning signs for me:
1) they shared a bed when there's heaps of beds
2) he's 30
3) and his history
And he's known these boys since they were young so I don't know? What do you guys think?