Was I raped? Or is this just a joke?

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Rachellt:

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So this is really messed up and really retarded.

So last year i'm at my friend's house and she invited like 15 people over for a party. I did not know about this until everyone showed up, but i just went along with it because i was in 8th grade and didn't think much of it.(im in 10th grade now) They had alcohol but i didn't drink any; I didn't wanna have anything to do with it so i just kinda hung out and stuff. I had a drink( i didn't think it was alcohol) and I passed out. idk what was in it, and i still don't. but the next thing i remember was waking up in a bed with another guy...naked. i had never seen this guy before and didn't know what do to. So i got my stuff and dressed and left. I walked home that night...about15 miles. I knew what happened a few nights later when i started having dreams and flashbacks and i knew i was raped, and i remembered almost ever detail and was terrified. I talked to my friend and she said i was and then she laughed...i never talked to her again, how was that funny?

So i go on for 2 years thinking this happened. living in fear..and broken. and then she decides to tell me it ws a joke and nothing happened...they just wanted to see what i would do....apparently.

Who the f*ck does that??? Now I don't know what to believe...did it happen? were the dreams all in my head? and just what i told myself so i had an answer for what happened? or was it jjust a cruel joke as she said? i'm so confused):
 
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1995

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If i were you, i'd go to the police. your friend's an idiot and needs to be hit with a hammer. that is NOT funny, whatsoever. i felt so sorry for you reading this. she obviously has a no standards and low morale if she thinks abusing someone's body like that is 'funny'.

urgh, i don't even know you and i'm mad for you.

but yeah. go to the police.
 
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MysteryWriter

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well since you have dreams then most likely it did happen...

and you would have to be raped or seriously drunk to end up naked... in bed... with a guy...
 
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Mimi

Member
I don't know. This all sounds kinda sketchy to me. I mean you drank something and passed out..? Their must have been something in the drink other wise you would have remember everything. Also was he dressed? How did you feel after wards? If you were a virgin you Should have felt soar down their or maybe a burning sensation when you went to go pee. If you did have these symptoms then you probably did have intercourse. I think you should try to get a hold of the boy and ask him your self once in for all.
 
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LiveLaughLove

Member
yes, it is indeed rape.
have you ever heard of a date-rape drug? people can easily slip a small pill in your drink when your not looking, which will cause you to fall asleep, or sedate you, which makes sex alot easier.
in this case, this was not sex. if you did not give him permission to have sex with you, then its rape.
if you dont remember you were drugged most likely by a date rape drug.
see a doctor,
you need to tell your mother or someone close by.
 
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