before i left and we ,? we met at a pub and hit it off while playing music trivia, i got her cell number before i left as her friend recommended me doing. we sent a few texts back and fourth and agreed to go on a walk the upcoming sunday as her christmas staff party happened on saturday night. friday came around before that took place and she mentioned to me about going for a few drinks with her friend at a local pub, i mentioned that i had no plans set in place for friday evening yet and she mentioned that it would be nice to see me and that i should join them for a few drinks. i had my doubts since it was actually before the walk on the following sunday as i prefer to get to know someone on my terms of being outside in the beautiful outdoors, particularally a walk. so i went anyways and had a good time, we all left at the same time and i gave her a hug before leaving and told her that we will see what time we should go for the walk depending on how she feels baciccly giving her the out to not go. that was fine, little puzzled as to why she wouldnt have the ability to let me know that she wasnt able to make it at all. so i ended up calling her about a hour before dark and mentioning to her that she is missing out on a nice day and to give me a call when your free. didnt hear from her until the next day to tell me . " hey i am sorry about yesturday, i had a bad day" i responded with " hey ---- ya i thought that may be the case. how you doing today? hope ur doing better" and that was about a hour after she left her message at 12 20 on monday. the point im trying to make here is that the way i see it is that early relationships are about give and take with the communication, like in my mind i feel that she is the one that has to continue so we can determine the next step as to whatever is going to happen by answering my question? because if i ignore that question and ask her again isnt that making me look like im desperate, help ladies please.