What can I do to get this African American girl to notice and take interest in me?

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I'm an Asian guy, but there is this particular girl that I really, really like.
She's an African American girl and I really adore her, but I don't think she even notices me in that way.
I want to become closer with her, but I don't think she likes Asian guys, cause not many Black chicks I know go for Asian guys, as a matter of fact none do.
But I don't care, I really like this girl.
How can I get her to notice and take interest in me?
 
I wish I could take over your body, and make your pimp hand strong...LOL...but all jokes aside, the same as you would any girl. Find out what she's interested in, start a random conversation about it. Then be like, your a cool chick blah blah, mind if I call you once in awhile. When you call, don't ask to hang out, be like your going somewhere (mall or something) ask would she mind tagging along, thats if shes not busy. Even if she says no, at least you called and or taking to her, (she knows who you are) The rest of time, try to get to know her slowly, just be cool man, you can't rush stuff like this. Its like baking, you got to pre-heat, then bake.
 
Ask her out don't just assume she doesn't like Asian dudes. I am a Black female and all throughout high school Black girls and Asian guys were always together. I had lots of Asian guy friends and my Black friend is married to and Asian man and they have two kids.

Ethnicity shouldn't be stopping you. You like her, you ask her out, tell her how you feel.
 
Ewwwww...

Bro, are you okay in the head? What's wrong with you? Been Watching too much BET?

You are poisoned. Get you mind right, bro. Black girls? Are you serious? Don't disgrace your race, man.
 
just because she's African American doesn't mean she's any different from normal girls... Just think about what girls like... Sensitivity, humor, being nice to her friends, etc. Pay attention to things about her like books she reads or sports she plays... But not in a stalker way!! Then ask her about those topics and maybe even ask her for help if ur brave!! ;) then now ur talking to her!!! Good luck
 
Why do you think she wouldn't like Asian guys? I know plenty of Black women that find Asian guys to be very attractive. There are many Korean, Japanese, Vietnamese, Filipino, etc guys that are so handsome. You seem like a nice guy so I am sure if you are confident in yourself that there is a great possibility. Just talk to her whenever you see her...give her a friendly hello and ask her how shes doing...
If she seems attentive and responsive then I would definitely continue! Even if she isn't...just try to make small talk and I promise you it will be okay =). I know some Black girls may be cautious because they know that Asian families prefer for their sons to marry Asian girls...so you definitely have to make the first move so shes confident that you are there for her..
Good Luck! =)
 
You should come up to her and stike up a conversation like "so how are you today?" Its corny but she'll laugh and answer. Then tell her that you think she's pretty. And that you like her smile or style or something around that feel. Then just go from there to like what are you doing this weekend?

Theres more black girls out there that date Asian guys believe me. I date Asians. Any ethnicity for that mattter.
Hope everything goes well!
 
rub mud on your skin and get bees to sting your lips and break your nose and gain heaps of weight, and shave you head. boy
 
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