What can I do to make people stop thinking I'm a lesbian?

R

Revolutionary

New member
This is a ridiculous question, I know, but it hurts my feelings that some people think I'm something I'm not. (It would hurt my feelings if they thought I was a Republican too, so don't call me homophobic.) I try to dress femininely, but I do not sleep around. I refuse to sleep around. So don't tell me to have s*x just to prove a point. I know I should just tell them all to go to h*ll in my mind, but it really hurts my feelings. What about a bumper sticker? Straight. How would that work? And why do people get so obsessed with the s*x lives of others anyway?
 
W

Willie

Member
Maybe you have more admirers than you think.
Lads sometimes call girls lesbian when they can't get them into bed, as you say if you slept around they would'nt call you a lesbian, they'd call you a slapper.
Just rmember people think awful things about others, all that matters is what you believe in and stand for....sod the rest of them, and don't let people force you into being someone you're not.
 
Q

QaoNk

New member
You might have personality traits that some people find offensive. The problem could be in your attitude towards people.
 
T

tiffybubs

New member
Who cares what people think?
Anyone can be what they like. It's a free country!
They just have boring lives and have to meddle into others!
I know your hurt but frankly you know your not a lesbian right? :) so? Let them think what they like, cos when you get a boyfriend and have kids, that will shut them up and make them look like fools!
Honestly I would just let it pass and be yourself! :)
Smile!!
Tiffany.
 
T

Tasha

Member
Me nd my best friend had theat problem for about 3 years...we done everythin together,hence being a so called ''lesbian'' i have to say it all stoped wen we stoped caring wat people wer sayin...lik if sum1 said to us wed say''and wats it to u if i am or not its none of yur business neway,is yur life dat borin u spend yur whole tym tinkin wat i am,yur the one tinkin about me,not me thinkin about u''....wen people realise it dont bother you the sooner they stop..they get kicks outta u reactin..hold yur head high nd dont let them put u down:)
 
Top