Im coaching a sports team and my kids keep complaining about everything the refs call against them. They keep getting kicked out and leaving the team in tough spots. I've tried talking to them and it has not been much help. Especially one kid who is also one of the best players is the biggest hot head of them all and wont listen to anyone. We have a shot at States this year but we are pissing off all the refs and getting them on our bad side. Any recommendations?