Well when I was 12 I came out half @$$edly. I was a shy person with low self esteem and a nerd, causing others to hate me even more and lose all my friends. But I've always been hot. So when I gained confidence at 14 and decided to change my life, I FLEW out of the closet and sparkled and shined and pissed people off, but found my true friends. There is always someone for you. And get this, the majority of my friends are straight, and ALL of them are for gay/lesbian rights! And they're all female!