I like my guys to have a strong back and pectoral muscles, that's my weakness. arms too, not too big, but if they are on the bigger size it will DEFINITELY catch my attention. as far as fat goes i want as close to a six pack as you can come, just flat really no fat because if im going to deny myself food and suffer to be tiny then he better reward me with a hard body. but then again there are those skinny nerdy types that i tend to fall for because of their wits alone, (there is something irresistibly sexy to me about a man in a lab coat)