Biscuitdesign
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not a silly teenager! lol? I hate my life right now, im up at 4:30am for work and my 2nd job doesn't finish until 10pm, yeah i know i took them but its best not to be fussy when some people can't even grt one job, so i am greatful. I work for a bank and a local council. I get one day off a week. Its tough and im also doin a psychology class through open university too.
I have applied to do nursing at uni, did my best on the statement, and i have personal experience caring, i also have been accepted into a new job as a carer, which will be part time one all the relevent training and forms are done etc. Plus i got merits on my last college course so hopefully the uni will see how hard i am tryin? But i found out that theres only a 9% chance of acceptance into a nursing course in the uk.... not very high
So what do i do if none of my choices accept me? I cant keep goin for another year at this pace or i'll exhaust myself completely!
I thot about a career break and doing camp america? Or doin somethin in peru? But these are expensive and im not guaranteed to be accepted, plus id miss family and friends.
Or have a baby? Now i have a stable partner for 3yrs. Hes in his early 30s and is very broody, he would love nothing more than to have a baby, and has made this clear to myself and my mum! Im in my 20s and almost all my friends have already had kids and i do sometimes feel like im missin somethin special? My mum wants grankids too. I've already bought my own house so im stable enough, i guess im just nervous as its a massive thing and im not very good with kids, but im told it comes naturally with ur own?
Anyway, if i had one i could still apply for uni next year as my man has said he would stay at home and look after the baby. He is good and cooks and cleans and wont let me lift a finger in the house.
Sorry for the huge story but really need some impartial advice!!! Whats the right thing to do? Ive got soo much on my mind and ur opinions are v much appreciated! Thanks x
I have applied to do nursing at uni, did my best on the statement, and i have personal experience caring, i also have been accepted into a new job as a carer, which will be part time one all the relevent training and forms are done etc. Plus i got merits on my last college course so hopefully the uni will see how hard i am tryin? But i found out that theres only a 9% chance of acceptance into a nursing course in the uk.... not very high
So what do i do if none of my choices accept me? I cant keep goin for another year at this pace or i'll exhaust myself completely!
I thot about a career break and doing camp america? Or doin somethin in peru? But these are expensive and im not guaranteed to be accepted, plus id miss family and friends.
Or have a baby? Now i have a stable partner for 3yrs. Hes in his early 30s and is very broody, he would love nothing more than to have a baby, and has made this clear to myself and my mum! Im in my 20s and almost all my friends have already had kids and i do sometimes feel like im missin somethin special? My mum wants grankids too. I've already bought my own house so im stable enough, i guess im just nervous as its a massive thing and im not very good with kids, but im told it comes naturally with ur own?
Anyway, if i had one i could still apply for uni next year as my man has said he would stay at home and look after the baby. He is good and cooks and cleans and wont let me lift a finger in the house.
Sorry for the huge story but really need some impartial advice!!! Whats the right thing to do? Ive got soo much on my mind and ur opinions are v much appreciated! Thanks x