I've been married for 8 years and we've never had any problems sexually. My hubby is 7 years older than me (I am 49 and he is 56). In the past year he has lost interest in me and sex. I am not ugly. I am talkative, fun, loving, warm, don't smell, but he seems to live in the past since Facebook got popular last year he's looked up all these women in his past including both his ex wives and old girls he loved ! Scary or what? What what how and how can I stop it and make him realize I am ME, his wife! Although 3rd wife, probably his last. No one will have him now, he is basically broke hand to mouth, works 9-5, barely talks to me, snores REALLY LOUD, and my bedroom has become the living couch, plus he has no friends, is fat, bald, wears glasses, loves Judy Garland (he's not gay though), and is only into dated movies and can sit for hours on end no bathroom break, and watch tv movies whatever!!!! Scary or what.... What would you do? HELP! OH, why do I stay with, BECAUSE I LOVE HIM, DUH, I don't care about what he looks like, or whatever, I just want him back the way he was!