When a guy talks about their ex a lot, nonstop ranting, does that mean he isnt...

[Eta]

...over her? Or maybe he is bitter? What if he calls her psycho and crazy?
What does it mean?
He told me he dumped her, and that it was a year more or less ago.
I feel that maybe she dumped him too, and she is now coming back into his life again

 

[GerryS]

He's just venting. His emotions are still conflicted about the good and bad memories, and it will take a while for him to just get the pain and confusion cleared.

 

[KayP]

is he usually like this with other people that have hurt him or upset him? if this were my situation id see it as him still having some lingering feelings for her, and if shes come back into his life hes probably remembering their relationship and is trying to force himself to move on and not feel those feelings, that would probably be where the name calling is coming from. hes trying to maybe persuade himself that she wass psycho and crazy, because if it was about a year ago thats a prettty long time for someone to still be just simply mad or bitter at someone who they dated and that THEY dumped

 

[FakeName]

He is hurt , betrayed and angry. He isn't ready for another relationship yet... He is rebounding and you are the Victim. RUN AWAY!

 

[JenniferM]

He may be 'over her' in the sense that he would never go back but he's not over what she did or the way it ended....
I say "Next", you dont want to be the one paying for her actions

 

[Brigette]

Be careful what guys say about their exes.

1. A year ago and he is still going on about her - Red flag warning signal.
2. A lot of guys blame their exes but do you really know him.
3. Never ever judge what he says as true till you speak to the ex.
4. He has still got feelings for her, whether its anger,after a year if he has
not moved on from what happened.
5. Have you ever heard there is 2 sides to every story, and a lot of people say things when they
are hurt or heartbroken. I know a guy, who told someone he dumped his ex, when in fact it was her who dumped him.I have learned to be weary of what people say, there is always problems and issues on both sides for why a breakup happens, never one person is at fault.Issues arise from faults within both. And not being able to resolve them (mature wise).