Where is he headed in life ***VENT***?

[Exhilaratingaisn'titm]

To begin- YES I put up with waaaay more than I should have. And YES we are broken up and we are about to go to court over our daughter. My question to you is based on the following list of things he has done to me and our daughter, where is my ex headed? Thanks for letting me vent!
Sorry its long... and this is just off the top of my head of what hes done the past couple yrs:

-he is a compulsive liar
-unaffectionate
-unsympathetic
-has called me a slut, piece of trash, etc.
-used to smoke pot on a daily basis
-lit up a joint 5 feet away from our daughter
-joined AdultFriendFinder while we were together
-has run back to his ex for sex on 3+ different occasions
-told me when I went to a therapy program he didnt want me to change for the better cause he doesnt
want to be with someone he doesnt recognize
-met a girl at the races while I was in a therapy program due to stress
-told me he left me cause he wanted to continue doing drugs
-got arrested for possession
-promised he would never associate with the crowd he used to do drugs with then went back to them
-moved in with the guys he did drugs with
-he tried to take our daughter around those guys
-made arrangements to sell synthetic pot by trying to buy it in bulk
-threatened to bring my family down in court
-his mom instigates problems/gossips
-stopped taking his daughter every weekend “to give me less time to find a boyfriend”
-stopped taking his daughter Wednesdays because he “cant afford the gas” but goes to a bar
an hour away that next weekend
-drinks in violation of his probation
-is driving with a suspended license
-when we were together he told me he “wants to be able to actually sleep with a gf”
-leaves me at the drop of a hat or when things wont go his way
-has played a part in crushing my self-esteem
-was told by the probation officer he has a highly addictive personality
-put me in a chokehold twice and shoved my head into a wall using his a year ago
-mocks my relationship with God
-stood in front of church and dedicating his life to God yet returning to his old lifestyle
-not appreciating the things I did for him like driving him around when his license was revoked
(grunting & groaning when I ever asked for help with gas for driving his to and from his home town)
- once told me he sees why my dad abused me

 

[Zach]

Hes right to do one thing, mock god. He does not exist. No proof, get over it.

 

[Erin]

Unless this guy goes through counseling he will not amount to anything. If what you say is true then it seems to me that you are better off without him. Get a restraining order against him until he agrees to some kind of treatment. When he smokes anything but tobacco cigarettes (not that it's good to do that around kids) around his daughter that is child endangerment. He could get arrested for putting his child in danger. He could also get arrested for domestic abuse. It all depends on whether or not you want to call the police when he does these things. If you feel comfortable having him see his daughter it seems to me that you could be better off having the visit be supervised. All this could get figured out if you take him to court. But that is up to you. I would say that you need to just stay as far away from him as possible.

 

[diana]

WOOW!! You had to put up with ALOT. But the saddest part is that, you let him treat you that way. The moment he cheated on you, you shouldv'e dumped him. I know that it's hard when he wasn't just your boyfriend, he's your daughters father. I can understand why you put in so much effort and so many years. He didn't love you. He really didn't. Like it says in the bible,"Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy, etc." Love isn't supposed to hurt, and abuse you like that. Good for you that it's over. I hope you can move on with your life and find true happiness. I hope all goes well in court. Good luck, and remember God first.

 

[jackie]

Where is he headed? You don't know? He will end up in prison, or he will end up dead. He's on a path to self destruction. You need not to have anything more to do with him. You can file for child support, but I don't think you will get any.