Why are people offended when a man is not a wimp but complain when he is?

FantasticPlanet

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Both women and men. When a man calls out a woman on something she did wrong, refuses to buy her a drink, doesn't spend enough money on her or flat-out ignores her when she nags him, people have the nerve to call him a sexist pig and a jerk (even though I'd rather be called this than a "nice guy"). I have experienced this myself. I don't shower girls with love like I used to. I don't compliment them at all anymore Last week at a club I was at, a girl asked me to buy her a drink. I said no. Straight up, why would I buy a girl a drink if I don't know whether or not she's coming with me that night. Sorry people but I don't subscribe to that "be the nice guy" crap because it gets you nowhere and I was consider a loser (rightfully so) for years before I became what I am now. Women just say that because logically, it's the right thing to say. However, they don't respond to "nice guy" behavior which I have found out. They just don't tell you that and it's sad that when a man wants to be a man, wants to be his own self, people try to put them down. No wonder why there are so many manginas and wimps in this country. sorry if I offended you but this is just me venting so if you'll excuse me...
What does this have to do with watching "too much" tv? And WTF does this have to do with God and with Jesus?
 

Jesus

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they wont respond to nice guy crap as you put it cause they arent used to it yet and you watch toomuch tv probably......... i imagine the world is way too hard for us all and it sure isnt normal ...world..this world shoulda never been created at all GOD.. you dont know if shes going home with you or not that night ... NO GOD NO PEOPLE NOJESUS THAT SOLVES IT ALL..
 

RonnyDelton

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I think you are not being yourself. It is not about being nice or rude, it's about being confident in your natural character, no matter what that may be. I know many naturally "bad boys " or aggressive guys (some close friends) who rarely get women.
 
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