ruffneksgrl
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Ok here's the story. Me and my fiance live together and I'm really good friends with his sister, we all have kids. She has two, A toddler and a baby. I have one that stays with me and my fiance, he's a toddler, and then my fiance has one that comes over every other weekend from his previous marriage, this ones also a toddler. Well for financial reasons we are staying with his parents right now, so on the weekends after we put the kid(s) to bed they keep an ear out for than and we go out for some time together. Well myself and his sister are both stay at home moms and anytime she wants me to watch the kids for her I do, I have never told her no. My child goes to my parents once a month for his granny and grandpa time since we live a few hours away from them, he usually stays a week or so. This time when I sent him there was mostly because I was getting the flu, and I didn't want him to get it. Everyday since he left at least one of her children has been here, for at least a couple hours if not over night. My fiance had to work two very long days this week, not coming home one night, and plus I have the full out flu now. It's the weekend that we have my fiances son, and its been a week since my kid left. My fiance wants to go out to dinner when we lay him down which i agreed to even though I don't feel well. His mother is sick now as well but said she would listen for him for us while we had dinner. His sister kept asking us if we would watch her kids over night and she would pick them up sometime tomorow. My fiance said we had plans and that me and his mother were sick and she called us selfish because she wants to go do something, even though her children were here last weekend all weekend and most of the week we had at least one of them, and I watched them yesterday while she ran a paid bills. Do you think we are being selfish telling her no? I have to add that we gave into her and we're going to watch them but it really bothers me that she would call us selfish. Do you think we should talk to her about it when she picks the kids up tomorow or just leave it be?