Why aren't guys interested in my despite people telling me I'm pretty?

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Friends,and strangers always compliment me saying I'm pretty. The thing is I don't feel that way. I have two younger sisters, one ten months younger and the other is my twin. I know these sisters are prettier than me. They get the most compliments, most attention from boys and are both in good committed relationships with wonderful guys. I love seeing them so happy, but I'd like some of that happiness too. I look at myself in the mirror and I see a pretty girl staring back sometimes but I just don't feel that way. It does not help either that all my friends are getting in relationships or are happy. Yes, I'm happy for them but it just makes me kind of sad when I see them all coupled up and I'm still single I just feel like the other "not so pretty" sister or friend. Sometimes I just wish I had some to cuddle with and someone to tell me I look beautiful and make me smile I'm in my second year of college and I thought by now I would have been in at least one relationship, but that’ snot the case. I'm on the college cross country running team, health and fit. I just don't see why no guy would be interested. I feel unattractive. I know I shouldn't feel this way but I guess I'm just kinda sad because I feel lonely. I guess I just need some confidence. Honestly what do you guys think? Do I look ugly from my picture? BE HONEST and no rude comments please.
https://www.facebook.com/delialicousness
Hi, above is the link to my facebook. Please look at my picture and tell me whether or not I'm attractive or unattractive. Maybe I need to hear it from other people because right now I'm just not believing it but be honest please and no rude comments. Thanks!
 
trust me when you go looking for a guy, it usually never works out.
Throughout my whole highschool career i had like one boyfriend... I am very pretty and nice and confdent and i asnt sure why i didnt have more boyfriends.
But i realized now that im older (20) i am glad i didnt have realtionships in highschool.. i was happier being with my friends and doing things that didnt involve boys.
I was in a committed relationship for about a year last year, but we broke up and honestly, you arent missing a lot... guys are good for paying for clothes and sex lol
yeah cuddling is nice, but guys are stupid and if you are confident in yourself, it doesnt madder what you looking like, you can have any boy you want.
guys dont just look for beauty... they look for a personality.. someone who they can talk to and joke around with instead of someone to just stand there and look pretty
 
I looked at your pic and some of the peeps in your friend's list and y'all look like losers... LOL


"be honest and no rude comments" LOL

It's pretty obvious why guys outside of your clique aren't interested.
 
YOU ARE FREAKIN PRETTY AS!
I had the same thing, people would tell me I was pretty, but then guys had no interest.
Wanna know what I learnt? Don't base your happiness on being with a guy. Instead, base your happiness on being with friends who will always be there for you and actually care about you.
Don't dwell on negative thoughts such as "I must not be pretty because i dont have a boyfriend" or "guys dont like me", etc. Because you'll make yourself depressed.
I know everyone says it, but. Wait for the right guy. Get to know them before you date them as well.

Good luck :)
 
You look above average.........so now what? I have been on here too long........fresh out of rude comments
 
WELL ITS KINDA HARD TO TELL WITH DAT PICTURE. YOU LOOK A LIL CHUBBY BUT YOU ARE A PRETTY GIRL. AND TRUST ME AT MY WORK THERE IS THIS CHUBBY GIRL WHO ALWAYS HAS GUYS FLIRTING WITH HER. I DO THINK IM PRETTIER THAN HER YET SHE HAS MORE LUCK WITH THAT. I THINK IT ALSO HAS TO DO WITH LUCK AND CHARISMA. WHO KNOWS? BUT YOU ARE NOT UGLY OK :)
 
Because they are stupid. That's all. I didn't even look at the picture. Your worth and value has nothing to do with your looks. They are missing out. Don't let them get to you, they just need to grow up some more.
 
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