Just had a short relationship end for one of the dumbest reasons. We were hitting it off, dating for months and we really liked each other. I met her boss 2 weeks ago and we hit it off. I put in a good word to him about her since she was a temp and was worried about keeping her job. he agreed with me saying that he planned to keep her. When I mentioned it to her she said not to talk to him. I apologized if I overstepped a boundary but I just wanted to put in a good word for her. She told me she didn't need the help. That was the last I ever heard form her. I tried to talk to her a bunch of times I would leave her alone for a day or 2 and try again but nothing. So instead of just telling me shes not interested anymore she just avoids me. I really liked this girl but she is waaaaay over reacting in my opinion.
Some of the other dates I have had, a girl who called me crying at 1am after we went on ONE DATE. being the good guy I am I cheered her up, on our next date shes telling me how handsome I am and how much she likes me but at the end of the date, wont kiss me. what the heck?
Another girlfriend I have had for years would NEVER have sex with me, she would do other things but not have sex. She said she wasn't waiting till marriage and she never had any sexual things happen to her as a kid. She would just start crying and saying it hurt if I put anything bigger then a finger in there.
ANOTHER would just do the usual bitch girlfriend things of lying and cheating and using me for money or a place to live. She eventually became a stripper and later a prostitute.
All I want is someone sane, not completely even because everyone has issues and if you dont then you haven't lived life. Someone who cares about the way they look, a go getter over the club/drinking scene. someone who is honest and loyal and doesn't over react. I treat my girls like ladies, I pay for everything, open doors and am there if they need me but all I find are girls that dont appreciate me. I have tried to be a jerk but it doesn't last because its not who I am.
Please any advice/ideas especially from ladies would be helpful. I just dont get it. Do I attract crazy girls or do they go crazy when they start to date me?
I fear that I am never going to find anyone
Some of the other dates I have had, a girl who called me crying at 1am after we went on ONE DATE. being the good guy I am I cheered her up, on our next date shes telling me how handsome I am and how much she likes me but at the end of the date, wont kiss me. what the heck?
Another girlfriend I have had for years would NEVER have sex with me, she would do other things but not have sex. She said she wasn't waiting till marriage and she never had any sexual things happen to her as a kid. She would just start crying and saying it hurt if I put anything bigger then a finger in there.
ANOTHER would just do the usual bitch girlfriend things of lying and cheating and using me for money or a place to live. She eventually became a stripper and later a prostitute.
All I want is someone sane, not completely even because everyone has issues and if you dont then you haven't lived life. Someone who cares about the way they look, a go getter over the club/drinking scene. someone who is honest and loyal and doesn't over react. I treat my girls like ladies, I pay for everything, open doors and am there if they need me but all I find are girls that dont appreciate me. I have tried to be a jerk but it doesn't last because its not who I am.
Please any advice/ideas especially from ladies would be helpful. I just dont get it. Do I attract crazy girls or do they go crazy when they start to date me?
I fear that I am never going to find anyone