Why did my friend laugh when her husband broke her arm?

Genie

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her husband beats her and one night broke her arm, she lied to the er doctors.

when her arm was in the cast, she made jokes about it.

what is wrong with her?????
she "loves" him and doesn't want to leabve him
 

jimrich

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Probably experienced violence as a child at home and has come to accept it or even enjoy it so long as it gets her the ATTENTION she craves now.
It's about childhood programing and conditioning by your parents and other influencial folks.........get it?
 

bubblesofjoye

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if she were to tell the doctors what really happened then they would call the police. she obviously didn't want that. in those situations its because the wife is scared of what will happen if they lose their husband. Or they are so brainwashed that they just accept it to happen.
 
She is an abused woman who feels she has no power or control over her life. She laughs in lew of crying. She is embarrassed and ashamed, so she displays a nervous laugh or joke to lesson her pain.

She is addicted to him...she does not even know what love is really. It surely does not exist with a person who beats you.
 

pisces72

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Her abusive husband must have manipulated her to beleive that if she confesses the truth the police will arrest him and then it will be bigger trouble and humiliation. Most abusers show their innocent victims 'fear of God' in the sense they magnify the troubles they will go through if they do or say something that is contrary to their instructions. When you are unsure, scared and in pain.. most weak-willed women give in to such manipulation. This pattern is so common among abusers-victims all over the world. The abuser hits, the victim suffers, forgives the abuser and then the abuse continues.. and the same pattern of events continues till one person dies or the victim musters enough courage to walk out on the abuser.
 
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